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Mistress Marquise Luisa Casati Ammon: Italian-Style ForcedBiby F OrcedbiMay 10, 2021

Today, we have the pleasure of welcoming a European, Forced-Bi specialist who also happens to be well-versed in history, philosophy, psychology and – frankly – the dark art of mind-fuckery!

In other words… you’re in for it!

Hello! Welcome!

Please, tell the audience your name – or, what you go by.

“I’m Mistress Marquise Luisa Casati Ammon.”

That’s a mouthful!

“I borrowed this name from an important Lady who lived between 1881-1957.”

Oh, right on!

“She was, for a while, great poet Gabriele D’Annunzio’s lover.

“When the relationship broke up, she no longer acted as ‘D’Annunzio’s woman’ – as was typical of the period – but as an independent woman.

“She loved to host parties in her manor, the Palazzo Venier dei Leoni, where she walked across her garden just wearing a fur – letting the others admire her.

“She loved to use dark makeup and dark and eccentric outfits.

“A quaintrelle who wanted to turn her life in to a work of art.

“In an age where women still lived in shadows, and were not allowed careers, she tried to be a trendsetter.

“Anyway, in her own unique way, she attempted to awake the sleeping people and open minds – even if this resulted in people gossiping about her.

“That’s the why I choose her name.”

Well! Thank you for that eloquent history lesson!

You have clearly put a lot of thought into your persona!

Does that affect your preferences about how people – presumably, submissives – approach you?

“There are a lot of epithets using to mention woman like me.

“First of all, I can tell you that I definitely prefer ‘Mistress.’

“In this context, the word ‘Mistress’ can be translated as Teacher or Guide. And that’s exactly what I am for my submissives.”

So fascinating!

“They obviously can see me as a Goddess. But, I guess that it is important, in this profession not to forget to keep humble – even (or especially) if we have a strong personality.”

So true!

That’s a very grounded point of view.

“I’m human, with all my defects and with all my deadly sins.”

I’m curious: How did you set off down this path? How did you get into the world of domination and fetishes?

“I guess that all of this started as a game.”

No kidding?

“Just to try to satisfy my pathological curiosity! Day by day, it got deeper inside me and quickly turned into a lifestyle.”

Is it a full-time thing for you now, then?

“Unfortunately, I can’t do this all day long, because I still have my vanilla job.

“I still keep this part of me hidden with many people.”

Like you’re living two lives?

“Even when I’m doing something which does not involve a D/s dynamic, explicitly, I feel that my personality – my ‘way,’ the real me – comes through.

“Additionally, I have plans to expand my BDSM activities so that I can do it whenever I can. So many possibilities!”

In order to quit your “day job”?

“Don’t get me wrong, I love my job. I work in a psychiatric clinic that specializes in rehabilitation.

“But, my dream is to come back to home and find my own, personal slave engaged in tidying up the rooms and just waiting to serve me.”

Haha! You gotta dream big!

“I’d like to set up my home and use two or three rooms as a Dungeon or Studio.

“This would allow me to increase the amount of time I can spend on my lifestyle.

“The choice to have the Studio in my own house, comes from the decision to keep – and even combine – both my work and my personal life. That’s the ‘Mistress Lifestyle.’”

Lol! Yes! So it is!

“As it is, it is nearly impossible for me to meet a lot of submissives. I have no time!”

Aw…sad ☹

You prefer quality over quantity?

“Presently, what I do is meet just a limited number of subs. That way, I can get to know them so much better – and even get to the point where I trust them enough to let them come to my home.”

Oh, I see what you mean.

Right… that requires some rapport building!

“Obviously, not the first time… or even the second. But just when I consider it appropriate.”

What do you call the people who seek you out?

“As I said, I prefer call them ‘submissives.’

“That’s because I guess the word ‘slave’ has a deeper meaning – and pertains to a deeper D/s relationship.

“So, not everyone I meet becomes my slave. But they’re all submissives – even if it’s sometimes just for play time.”

Right on. I follow you.

“It’s quite difficult find a generic concept in this world, because every Mistress has her own domination style, and every sub/slave has his/her fantasies and needs.”

It’s all very personal.

How long have you been at this?

“I started just to play, but I suddenly understood that it was my way. Something just changed inside me. Now, things are different.

“Something that you’ve ever had inside you, suddenly turns on, and you feel like you finally find yourself for the first time.

“That’s what happened to me.”

Were you into kink before you began to engage in it professionally?

“I played for some years, just to have fun. But I was willing to grow up, to get to know other people, have new experiences, etc. It got to be a lot —  so, I started doing this as side work.”

No regrets?

“It’s the best choice I’ve ever made! It allows me to really live in this world.”

What type of jobs do you take on?

“Sessions, videos, meets – I like to get acquainted with new Mistresses or Masters and attend different events, and so on.”

Oh, gotcha. Like conferences and the like?

“Basically, I never stop working!

“No more social life, no more relaxation, no more holidays.

“When I finish my one job, I start another.”

But, you’re… okay with this?

“I’m super satisfied with it!”

Oh, very cool!

“In just one year I reached some important personal goals, and I’m not gonna stop.”

Congratulations!

“I guess that my position allows me to explain – as best I can – what Femdom is to me. Some people will ignore it and some will look for more info.”

Do you feel like sharing anything else about yourself?

“I’m Italian, and – unluckily – Italians are pretty closed minded.

“I have to do videos, photos, and any other stuff (in which anybody could see faces) using a mask, most of the time.

“Because of my work.

“Because of my family – even if they already know what I do and who I am; because of all that friends who still don’t know about me.

“It’s not easy share with others what I do.

“It’s not easy because we’re still living in a medieval mentality.

“And that’s the reason which leads me to talk about it – trying to provide good and healthy information; trying to be clear that people who engage in BDSM or Femdom aren’t ‘weird,’ or ill, or ‘pervy,’ or wrong.

“They just have different ways to get sexual satisfaction.

“I’d love to be able to live my sexual lifestyle freely.

“I’m bisexual, too!”

Oh, right on.

Do you think that true “bisexuality” – where a person is more of less equally attracted to females and males – is possible?

“I think everyone of us, more or less, has both male and female personality features.

“So, it’s quite normal desire to try bi-sex experiences.

“Sometimes, it’s just a fantasy – and has to remain no more than this. Sometimes, you try just for curiosity. And, sometimes, you find out that you like different genders.”

Before I forget… what do you call this fetish?

“The practice has several names, but ‘Forced Bi’ is the one I prefer, because it describes fetish well. Also, it’s pretty widespread in use, and it’s what is frequently requested by submissives.”

How do you think of the fetish? I mean… is it a bit of fun? A game? Pastime? Or is it something more serious? For example, do you see it as social activism? Is a power trip? Something else?

“For me, it’s a power trip. For the subs, well… it depends.”

Fair enough.

Do you see it primarily in terms of male submission, male and female submission, both, or neither?

“I guess it’s more common for male subs – not because they have more sexual doubts, but just because girls have less issues freely trying new sexual experiences and living out their sexual desires.

“For guys, something is different.

“In our society, the Alpha-Male concept prevails. And this is a hinderance for everyone who is just a bit different or just a bit bi-curious.

“That’s the why many men need to have a Mistress who can ‘force’ them to do what they actually desire, but that they lack courage to do.

“Be enforced, is a perfect way to leave behind every responsibility, thought, and choice.”

It’s a complex guilt-avoidance strategy!

Is that the real sense of the word “forced”? What – within all applicable legal bounds, of course – does “forced” come down to?

“Every sub has to be forced in his own way.

“That’s the interesting thing. Every one of them has his own fantasies, his own skills to improve, his own timetable in which to develop and respond in different ways to a Mistress’s input.

“I guess the Mistress’s competence is to find out which is the right way for that sub.

“She neess to walk across the mind’s roads.

“There are many ways to ‘force’ somebody. A person may just need instruction or permission; somebody else needs to be ‘threatened,’ so you can actually bring in some real psychological pressure.”

Given the personal factor and variability, can you make an general statements about what you think is “going on” with Forced Bi? I mean, does a guy actually “change” his sexual orientation? And so on.

“Basically, I don’t force anything, strictly so called. It’s a kind of role play, more or less.

“But whoever comes to me is obviously already a latent homosexual or bisexual. I don’t change anything.

“I just license the expression of his repressed ‘gaiety,’ so to say.

“It’s called ‘forced bi‘ so that the guys don’t freak out – at least until they accept this part of themselves.”

It just sets them at ease? Takes them off guard?

“It might be disarming.”

What’s your view about “role flexibility”? Can a person be a “switch”?

“In my experience, subs who generally approach me about playing a passive role, keep that role over time because they prefer it.

“Some of them, after few times, can ‘evolve’ with sissification and no longer need to be ‘enforced.’

“But those who prefer an active role have an easier time switching.”

Some women profess to enjoy guy-on-guy sex. Straight women sometimes liken their enjoyment to that expressed by straight men who like witnessing two women together sexually. And in the case of two women, it is reasonable to think that participants are not always lesbians or even bisexual. They could just be exhibitionists. Other women might just like viewing gay spectacles. And a few, more dominant types perhaps, seem to find the gender-bending and role-reversal aspects appealing.

Do any of these resonate with you?

“When I have this kind of session, my role changes according to the situation.

“It’s reductive and simplistic thinking to handle sessions the same way all the time. During a session, you have to consider all the relevant factors and variables, feelings and feedback, input and so on.

“Mostly, I just let the game unfold – and then everything that happens is shaped under my instruction and control.

“Having said that, I do like gender-bending and reversing traditional roles. For me, this is kind of like therapy.”

A few women claim to want to date bisexual guys, participate in threesomes with them, etc. Others seem to think that once a guy tries guy-on-guy sex, he’s less desirable to women. Is bisexuality in general a “positive” quality in a guy? How about past participation in forced bi?

What do you think?

“Of course, I think bisexual guys are more attractive than straight ones, who are hung up on the concept of being the ‘Alpha Male,’ who lack complexity and are sexually boring, and who are always stuck on the same stuff.

“An open-minded guy is definitely happier and capable of being more satisfied. He can live his best sexual life; he’s open to trying different things – without prejudice. So, everything can be much more fun – and hotter!”

Is the Forced-Bi fetish “healthy” or “unhealthy”?

“I guess it’s important to say that all experiences, even forced-bi experiences, have to be done in a way that minimizes or eliminates dangers and risks.

“I always make sure to know about my sub’s health. I always check and order them to be clean, and never allow them to play without condoms.

“Subs are Mistress’s responsibility. So, it’s her role keep everything under control.”

I gotcha. So, you like to maintain the old “safe, sane, and consensual” type of environment.

Fair enough.

What are the psychology of it? Is Forced Bi conducive to a sub’s “flourishing”?

“I also think this practice is productive exploration. It aids in self-discovery.”

Right on.

“Some of these guys are latent homosexuals. So, this just helps them be faithful to their true natures.

“It’s better explained with any example activities.”

Haha! We’ll get to that in a moment!

Do you think that this fetish is getting more popular?

“As I’ve already said, guys who ask for – or accept – this kind of practice are mostly latent homosexuals (or bisexuals). But they aren’t able to handle their inner conflicts, largely due to the operative social stereotypes.

“Homosexuality has always existed, since the birth of humankind.

“Think of Ancient Greece.

“This was often only expressed in ‘weird’ poetry because poets were the only people who had the courage to talk about it.

“In our age, we’re still stuck to stereotypes and limiting concepts. But, luckily, many people have started to live better and free their sexuality.

“I guess forced bi is a perfect kind of practice to help subs to find out their real fantasies.

“So, I think this practice is getting more and more popular – at least until people are free enough that they no longer need to be ‘encouraged’ about it.”

Okay! So… what activities do you enjoy watching – or “ordering”?

“First of all, let me say that it’s pretty funny hear about all a sub’s fantasies. But its even better to watch their faces when the fantasies turn into reality!”

Oh?!? Haha! It sounds like you have a specific memory, here!

“Once, a sub asked me to use it as a table, while two other subs had to cum on his back.

“So, I put a candle on the back of the first sub, and encouraged the others ones to extinguish the flame with their cum!”

Um… oh, gawd!! Lol! That’s kinky!

Are your scenes always pushing imaginative boundaries like that?

What could a sub expect from a basic scene?

“Here’s what I like: oral sex, facials, cum eating – not in mutual way. I choose which one has to be the passive one.”

Oh? Mmm…

“That’s because I keep everyone under my control – both the active and the passive one.

“I decide when they have to suck; I decide when they may cum; and so on.

“Sometimes, it’s difficult to get the anal sex going. But, sodomy is my thing!”

Now… Does your control mean that you don’t care whether the sub wants to “bottom” or “top”? You just impose your will?

“Even if during a session it may seem that I’m quite cruel, you can tell that I do care about sub’s preferences.

“So, when I create a scene, I choose the guys according to their preferences and limits.”

Oh, I see what you mean. Hot!!

“I prefer work to with subs who have dedicated roles, because they are more arousing and more focused.

“On the other hand, flexible subs are perfect to try in experimental situations. So, I can decide which role ones suits them better.

“But, honestly, before I can properly use a sub, I need to study their mindset and their behaviours.”

What’s your personal reaction to these scenes? Specifically, do they arouse you at all? Or are you just amused? …something else?

“During sessions, I’m always amused to see when I watch. But sometimes I do see something that gets me horny! And that’s basically when I wrap up the scene by penetrating them!”

Haha! Mmmmm…

When might that occur?? What gets you going?

“I can’t give a precise list of the conditions that would trigger my arousal. But, I certainly do enjoy role reversals and power exchanges – especially where you have a male in a female role. Maybe he’s dressed up as a sissy, and I’m in the traditional male role.

“That’s hot stuff, to me.”

Mmmm… That does sound hot!

How “involved” do you like to be? I mean… are you chatting with guys or watching over webcam? Do you like in-person situations? …“other”?!

“I prefer to work in reality – not virtual reality.

“…Especially with first-timers!”

Oh? Mmmm!

“I want to decide who they have to meet, and what they’re gonna do.”

That’s kinky AF!

“After I have given a sub a great education, then I let him keep doing this by himself – but always dropping me some pics, screenshots, text records of any flirtations, and so on.”

So… you incline subs towards getting “down and dirty”! I love it!

“Absolutely! I encourage guys to have real, in-the-flesh encounters with other males. Chat might be the gateway, but I want to see how far they’ll go.

“And push them further.”

Mmmm… So hot!!!

Do you think that a sub could “just try” getting assfucked and then quit? Or would he become “addicted”?

“Subs who are brave enough to try still have to be guided to discover their true selves.

“For some, maybe it is just a curiosity. It’s nonsense think that literally everyone who sucks a cock will end up super gay with a broken ass!”

Haha… Fair enough!

“It’s this kind of thinking that makes guys less willing even to try.”

What about limits?

You mentioned condoms, earlier. So, does that mean one of your hard limits is “barebacking”?

“We talk a lot about the lighter stuff, but there is the other side too.

“When a guy tries this for the very first time, he’s totally trusting me for every single moment.

“As a Mistress, I have huge responsibility. And that’s why I want to check everyone and everything.

“All has to be under my control – and not just to maximize my fun or to feed my Ego!

“When I said that I choose my sub’s partners, it’s because I need to be sure those guys are clean and healthy.

“And every sexual activity must be done with condoms to avoid STDs and other, related risks.”

Roger that.

“Often, guys get too excited during a session and ‘forget’ to use condoms.”

Haha!!! No doubt!

Any other memorable experiences – beside what you’ve already shared?

“I remember once, I was in the middle of the action, very softly encouraging the passive one, while the active one was tied up and blind folded.

“There were a lot of people in the play space. So, for few seconds, I lost the focus and glanced away from both of my subs.

“When I looked back, again, I had to interfere – and punish the passive sub, because he was close to sucking the other guy’s bare cock!”

Mmm… Haha! I probably shouldn’t find that arousing!

“No way! They’re all horny bitches.”

Lol!!! Truth!

“So, you have to learn how to practice in a safe way – for your own sake, and for the sake of your future partners.”

Any other limits you can articulate?

“I do have any other limits, sure. But everything is reasonable.

“I’m totally and categorically all about STD prevention. But when it comes to any other stuff, I guess you can all be analized, one by one.”

Mmm… “Analized,” huh?!? That sounds amazing!

What about… amyl-nitrate inhalers?

“Some guys used to get poppers, because it’s reputed to be a vasodilator – and it helps them to not feel any pain during penetration.

“But, I’m not in total agreement with this because, even it poppers can function as vasodilators, they may also have bad side effects – like tachycardia and heart disease.

“I’d rather suggest that they use some ointment as a local and topical anesthetic. Or, even better, just keep up with training; constantly do anal work outs!

“But… if you do want use popper, or any other stuff, it’s not my business.

“It’s different, though, if someone comes to me with an addiction or as a total junkie.

“I cannot continue – or keep in touch with – someone like that.”

What about married men?

“A lot – and I mean, a lot – of guys who come to me are already married.

“It’s not a limit for me.”

It’s not your marriage, huh?

“It’s not because I just don’t care. It’s deeper than this.

“I guess that if somebody cheats, we always have to ask why he does.

“Maybe he’s just an asshole who doesn’t care about his family. This kind of fake personality always appear clearly in no time.

“But sometimes people who come to me – for example, somebody who may be newly engaged – is perhaps struggling with some inner conflict.

“He can’t talk to his wife or his family about who he really is.

“And that’s unfortunate. It makes you feel so sad, weird, wrong and lonely.

“So, it’s so much better if he starts to find out his real potential – his real passions – because I’m sure that if this guys starts to be sexual satisfied, and starts to accept himself and his fantasies as normal part of himself, then he will be so much happier and more self confident.

“And I’m not sure that starting Forced-Bi training with a Mistress is gonna ruin the marriage.

“In some cases, when we start to act as we really are, and start to do things that we really love, it changes us for the better. And this could even change the marriage, or change his approach to the whole of his life.”

Do you have any other fetishes or activities that you like to participate in, direct, or instruct? I’m sure you do! What are you into? Cock-and-ball “torture” (CBT), crossdressing, cum-eating instruction (CEI), pegging/strapon, small-penis humiliation (SPH), etc.? Anything?

“As a Mistress, I enjoy a lot of fetishes!

“Linked to Force Bi are CEI, pegging, CBT, crossdressing, sissification, SPH, humiliation, and so on.

“But, also, there is a whole world of other practices to find out about – fetishes like corporal punishment and whipping (from soft to hard).

“I love to keep exploring Femdom practices, and I love to take a cerebral approach – which always improves the depth of the D/s relationship.”

Right on! I can see that you do!

So, before you go… please, tell everyone where they can find you, online!

“This is my main web site: https://mistressmarchesaluisacasati.jimdofree.com/.

“You can also find me on Twitter: https://twitter.com/CasatiLuisaBDSM,

“or Instagram: https://instagram.com/miss.luisa.casati,

“or Onlyfans: https://onlyfans.com/casatiluisa.

“You can find my clips on my C4S Studio:  https://www.clips4sale.com/studio/165895/marchesa-luisa-casati

“or in my IWC Studio: https://iwantclips.com/store/835186/LuisaCasati.

“All my free content is on PornHub: https://it.pornhub.com/model/marchesa-luisa-casati-ammon.”

That will keep readers busy, for sure!

Thank you so much, Mistress Luisa! It’s been both enlightening and entertaining!

We wish you all the best for the remainder of 2021 – and beyond!

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